Today I need a personal reminder that I am doing the best that I can. Everyone is. I have many things going on right now and giving myself a guilt trip and allowing my low self esteem to take over is not helping.
I need to remember that I am a good wife, I am a good mom and that at work I need to let other people actually do some of the work instead of doing it all myself. I mean that is why you have employees is to let them do some of the work isn't it?
I need to ask for help when I need it and actually let people help me. I basically need to learn to let go, ask for help and to trust people. I am not superwoman. I can not do everything by myself, sometimes we need help from people. I need to remember this more often. My problem is I try to do it all myself and then I get frustrated that I don't get it all done and that in turns stresses me out.
It's perfectly fine to admit that you can't do it all. Asking for help is not weakness. Asking for help is a strength. Just don't take advantage of people, which I don't because people know that when I ask for help I really need help, and it takes a lot for me to ask for help.
So I'm writing this today as a reminder to myself. Stop stressing. Your doing the best you can. Just let go. You can't do everything and you know what that is totally fine.Your doing what you can that's all that anyone can ask of you. Stop being your own worst enemy and give yourself a break, you deserve it.
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